By Hari Ziyad

A buddy asked if he could rest nude during sex beside me.

A day or two before, I lay nude into the hands of some other man—a friend too, possibly my most useful, but a enthusiast first, we thought.

My enthusiast and I also argued afterward. Though monogamous, we hadn’t had intercourse that night or even for a couple of weeks by the period. He stated he wished to be sure we didn’t “center our relationship on intercourse, ” but having something and centering anything are a couple of things that are different.